Meet the founder
Hi, I'm Lily
I created Before I Do to make space for the questions that matter most.
Why I Created Before I Do
Asking the right questions helps us know each other honestly, approach marriage with intention, and honor God in the process.
Before I Do is a tool for having those conversations—covering faith, money, family, values, dreams, and expectations. The goal isn’t perfect answers or a perfect partner. It’s deeper understanding to build something meaningful under God’s guidance.
What We Believe
- God’s Design. Marriage is worth preparing for, and God’s design for it is best.
- Honesty as an Act of Love. Honest conversations build real trust and clarity.
- Joyful Intention. Dating should be joyful, purposeful, and oriented toward growth.
- Understanding over Agreement. You don't need to agree on everything to build a strong, faithful relationship.